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writes: Hi I've been on here before and I'm still confused. I'm 21. There is a girl who is constantly on my mind who I am very much in love with. On the phone and in texts she tells me she loves me too and sends loads of kisses and stuff. For everyone to know, we are not in a relationship, we just like each other and both of us would like to be in a relationship in time. However the girl is only 17 and not really that bothered about tying herself down to one guy and to be fair I understand that. I mean everyone's only young once. I just wish I had enjoyed more when I was her age. OK, my problem is: should I wait for her? I feel so much for her. I could never hurt her and would give anything I could to be the one who's at her side. She may not want a proper relationship for 3 years or more, should I wait for her? It would show how much I really care for her, and as a virgin at 21 i'm sure a few more years won't really bother me - no she isn't my first love, but this one feels so right and in time I really hope it will. Is it right that I feel bad when she tells me what she gets up to with others blokes? I don't mean sexual things coz she's a virgin too, but I get jealous of every guy she kisses, snogs, goes with, whatever you want to call it. I need help so if you can...
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reader, Helen Help! :)  +, writes (12 June 2006):
 Hey Huni
As im a 17 year old my self i guess i could help u here well at least try, ive bin with my first bf for a year n 3 months now n i felt exactly the same as the girl u like did i was like omg do i really want a bf im only 17 n if i fall in luv n want him foreva thn ive only bin with one person n its a scary thought so i no what shes going through but the thing that really botherd me was that i was too a virgin and i wasnt sure that i dint want to be anymore n i knew having a bf would mean ide have to sleep with him n i was terrified thats what put me off maybe she feels the same cuz before the bf i have now i always said i dnt want a realtionship n thats the reason why. and no its perfectly normal for u to be jealous when she goes out with other lads but if it really bothers you then just tell her say " you no how i feel about you so can u please not tell me about all the lads u go with" anyways i say jus either give her time or if u feel its not goin to go any where then try and put your self out there meet another girl that way you can have fun n itll deffinatly take your mind off of this girl.
Good luck. Helen x
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reader, sibaan +, writes (11 June 2006):
 if you really have feelings for this girl, then stick around but what if in the end she doesnt end up with you??you should go on a date with another girl just to see how she reacts and then you should get your answer...good luck
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