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We aren't dating but she says "luv ya" all the time. Confused and overthinking!

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Question - (4 January 2016) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2016)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I've only been seeing this girl for a month technically, we went on a few dates before we really kicked it off, we were doing boyfriend girlfriend things but we are pretty much in the romantic stages.

We've only known each other for less then 3 weeks she went away for vacation with her fam. We keep in touch everyday. She tells me she misses me everyday. She also said, "I luv ya" about 2-3 times. I said jokingly that I know she meant it as a friend. She said she loved me Like she did her bestfriend.. I also casually brought up what we were. And we aren't dating, but she says she feels really open with me and a bit shy In a good way.. She told me when she gets back that she wants To start new with me.. She also mentions that she just wants me to workout bc she likes muscular guys lol, I'm fit just not buff.

I'm wondering how this girl really feels about me. If she just likes me or wants something more..I tell her I really like her and all that. And she's definitely not running from it or weirded out by it... I do really like her, she is a pretty upscale girl but very down to earth.

Any advice on how she's feeling bc I'm overthinking things would be a life saver. Thanks!!

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (4 January 2016):

aunt honesty agony auntSounds like she likes you and you like her so go with the flow and see what happens.

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A male reader, Denizen United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2016):

Denizen agony auntIt sounds like the starter pistol may have sounded. Don't force the pace but it seems to me that there could be the start of something there.

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