| A
female
,
anonymous
writes: I recently ended a two year relationship. I few weeks ago, I slept with one of my ex's friends. I know that this man and myself are not that compatible. I can't figure out why I want him so much when we clearly are not a very good match. We have different religions and opposite goals in life. He's also a good friend of my ex, who by the way, would completely freak out if he knew what happened. To top the cake, this man wants to get back together with his ex girlfriend. What can I do to get this guy off of my mind and start looking for love in the RIGHT place? I am finding it hard to go out and flirt with others because he is constantly on my mind. I think it's starting to really depress me in ways that it shouldn't.
View related questions:
ex girlfriend, flirt, get back together, his ex, my ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, xLEAHx  +, writes (11 November 2006):
 Hi Anon,
There's a saying 'OPPOSITES ATTRACT' there's alot of ppl out there who are attracted to the opposite sex who have totally nothing in common with eachother what so ever,but they have this strange connection to that certain person mainly sexual ,the thing you have to get into your head is that there is no future with this guy seeing as the sex you had with him was just a one night stand and purely meant nothing to him,maybe your a kind of person that gets emotionly involved quickly and you just enjoyed the intamacy you had with him, as he told you he wanted to get back with his ex..your find that if you have no contact with this guy your soon get over him..just go out have fun with your friends and move on thats all you can do..
|
