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writes: Okay, i've been seeing this great guy for about a month now. I just got out of a 2 year relationship about 3 months ago. I'm not sure if i'm not ready to date or not but I just ended things with the new guy based on little things that "added up".I think he's amazing and we got along great but my friends always tell me i'm too patient when it comes to relationships so, I was trying to end things to avoid conflict in the future? Was this the right move? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, pica +, writes (12 November 2006):
You're maybe just not ready - potential guy, wrong time. That happens. The little things annoying you could just be your way of getting out of the situation. Whatever it was, you've done the thing you knew to be right for you and with relationships that's what is best. I also think that on the whole we should listen to our friends - they don't always agree with us but they are friends because they care for us and our wellbeing. Sometimes they see things we don't. Life is much less without friends, partner or no.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2006): I'm not sure if this was the right move or not. I would need to know what those "little things" were that caused you to break it off. I do know one thing, DON'T LISTEN TO YOUR FRIENDS! You do what you feel is right not what your "friends" think is right for you. They're not going to find your happiness only you know what that is.
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