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30-35,
*uperkar
writes: Hi everybody I am having a lot of stuff in my mine about this situation. I just get to know a girl 2 years older than i am thru one of mine roommate. she is the most beautiful girl i've ever seen and also really smart too. we have a lot in common like taste in movie, foods and down to the same level of lactose intolerant. the thing is she displaying somewhat interest in my roommate (the one that know her first). what should i do to get her out of my head. i dont know what to do because i really like her but i think she likes my roommate and also my roommate and that girl are displaying some what of intimacy
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (6 January 2012):
I think that is probably the best thing you could do. A good choice!
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reader, superkar +, writes (6 January 2012):
superkar is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the answersi talked to her yesterday just get to know her more. She said that she does like my roommate but she wasn't ready for a serious relationship yet and want to start as fwb with mine roommate. But mine roommate only wanted a serious relationship so the cycle go on and on. I think i will step out and give support for both of them as i dont want us to become more awkward later on.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (5 January 2012):
Hi there,
I say talk to your roommate. Ask him if there's anything going on between them. Careful how you tread, you don't want him getting defensive or worried that you'll step in on his girl, but he'll probably be able to clear up any questions about their relationship. If he says there's nothing going on, then you can tell him that you're interested...
Good luck!
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (4 January 2012):
If they are displaying intimacy then maybe they have already started something. If you like her tell her how you feel and see how she responds, if she says no well at least then you know you tried and you can move on.
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