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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Me and my ex broke up a year ago... and it took me a long time to get over her. I thought I was, but I keep dreaming about her and its driving me crazy! I dont know why I do, but all I know is she kept contacting me for months after we broke up and I stopped replying to her - she always initiated the texts, and I basically didnt reply to her, but now I feel like maybe its because I have not spoke to her in 6 months that maybe its time to just see how she is, and will this make me feel better? Im not a horrible person and im very caring, and even though she moved on very quickly after we split with someone whom I do not think is right for her at all, and it broke my heart that she moved on so quick. I guess I still care about her? Or am I bitter that she's with someone and I'm not? I suppose what im asking is does anyone think that contacting her again would be a good thing, or should I just leave it? She was an important part of my life and we went through a hell of a lot together, what should I do?Thanks...
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reader, Crazy Fox  +, writes (4 January 2012):
 Hi there,In my opinion you don't need to get back in touch at all, of course you want to and it's natural, but if she moved on and has somebody else then I can't see what you might achieve when you contact her. It will only hurt you more once you know she is happy and you will feel even more desperate and sorry for yourself. Take example from her and move on too. I know what break up is I am in this state at the moment, but try to be strong, you are much stronger now that you were 6 months ago, so just carry on.Regards,Crazy Fox
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