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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Genius bordering insanity.My crush and I got out of touch bc of some misunderstanding (girls said crap and he was immature enough to listen to them...and well his guy friend too...who btw liked me and I think was getting personal revenge) ...but people who know the story are coincidentally in my life.For instance, one of my new friends in grad school is roommates with his friend that is a girl...who i think knows everything that's going on.A part of me gets hopeful but then pushes it away. I feel like I'm bordering insane bc I feel like things could work out btw us...due to how small our worlds really turned out to be (he ended up being part of MANY of my social circles, the social circles where the girls were so bitchy that I left so he has NO idea in how many ways we are connecting). He was the one to do the last wrong thing (aka defend his image over me) so I think I'm just hallucinating ... what should I do to get over this?I compare every guy to him and even those who beat him...they don't invoke the emotions he did. Rationally, I've given guys the green signal ...but inside even just a glimpse of him sets me on fire. We had interviewers today and I thought he was one of them and my GOODNESS how powerful it was to me. I can only imagine what would happen if I really did see him (more than months since I have seen him).PLEASE HELP ME GET OVER THIS! IT WAS UNFAIR WHAT HAPPENED...BUT I CANT GO CRAZY FOR A GUY! IT SOUNDS SO STUPID!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2011): If you have such strong feelings for him you should forget about all that happened and start fresh.
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