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Attracted to a Step-Cousin. Is this wrong?

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Question - (6 December 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 8 December 2011)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Is wanting to have sex with my step cousin wrong?

she's my dad's step brother's kid, so we've been cousins our whole life, and have always got along, able to talk for hours. now she lives in my city for med school. she isn't some distant relative i never see. we see each other at least every thanksgiving and christmas, but usually more. i've always had this attraction to her i've never acknowledged until recently, and our whole lives we've gotten along more with each other than our other cousins. i've also always had the feeling she felt the same way about me too, always trying to spend more time with me than anyone else at the parties. how can one test the waters without straight up asking her? how can i know if she feels the same way? we've always just been cousins, but i didn't consciously realize we aren't blood related until recently

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (8 December 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntya know if my cousin came to me and wanted just sex cause i was hot, he'd be a eunuch when I was done with him....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2011):

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just sex for now, because dating would be hard to explain. she's beautiful, and we're both single. petite, but busty. blonde. smart. funny.

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (6 December 2011):

olderthandirt agony auntYou're good as long as petty family gosip doesn't get in the way

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (6 December 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntso do you want to have a relationship with her or just sex?

If you are not blood related there is no legal reason you can't be a couple.

but you have to consider how the family will react.

and I would take into consideration how you guys will feel if you have a romantic relationship and break up and then have to see each other at family events.

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