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writes:I am in a confused state of mind right now.i am 26yrs and my girlfrnd is 21.I was in dis relationship for 6 years nw although we had a break up in between for 8 months becos of her infidelity.After accepting her back,she changed for d better she was really faithful to me but most of the time,we quarreled,becos she was not straight-forward and i could not really trust her again.She naturally has a hot temper and recently she put up a new character of insulting me anytime we had a quarrel.Now i traveled to another city and met anoda girl who was my friend initially and gradually we started dating.dis new girl is much older dan my girlfrnd and she really respects and handles our issues maturedly.we jst started dating for 4 months nw.my girlfrnd found out that i was seeing somone else and she reacted violently,cursing and breaking things in my house and when i told her i was fed up and wanted a break up,she calmed down and started beggin me dat she will change.now am caught in d middle of my girlfriend and dis new girl dat am so happy with...i need ur help in makin d right decision cos my girlfrnd is not makin it easy for me to leave d relationship,she feels we have stayed too long to break up like this.i feel d same way too but am scared of ending up with somone with such a temper.so many people know us together even her parents and my siblings.what do i do?should i continue with this new girl or giv my girlfrnd another chance?HELP ME PLS.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (6 December 2011):
 if you are happy with the new girl then it's time to end it with the girlfriend. yes she will be unhappy and may act badly but it's better to end it then drag it out and be unhappy.
If you need to get a restraining order then do so. there is no need to be afraid of someone's temper.
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