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writes: Hi thanks to you all for answers to my questions thus far. i'm a guy of 26 plus and my girlfriend is 22 plus she work as a secretary we have been dating getting to 4yrs. now we both love each other we've not had sex, romance or kiss even when she pays me visit but the last time she visited me, we talked, joked, try to romance, kiss and even sex she refused she said shes is not ready for that. now does she loves me and now i haved moved to new place she does not care to know the place nor call me how do i know if she is dating someone else or she still loves me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2013): This doesn't seem like a romantic relationship at all after dating for four years and not much of anything. Why did you wait so long to test the waters or so they say? Whats up with that?
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (10 May 2013):
Well to be honest with you, intimacy is a critical part of a healthy relationship. Since your relationship is long term but completely lacked intimacy it wouldn't surprise me if she has lost interest. It doesn't mean she's with anyone else, she just may not want to be with you any more.
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reader, SensitiveBloke  +, writes (10 May 2013):
 You've been dating 4 years and not kissed each other? Are you just friends? Are you in love with each other?
It would be a bit odd to go from nothing to everything in one night.
Take things one step at a time and don't rush her.
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