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*il_dreamer
writes:My situation is pretty complicated. I'm 16 and this boy that i like is gettin his license on the 2nd. thats less then two weeks and he plans on fucking in the car as soon as he gets it. I know that is all he wants cuz he can't even have a normal conversation with me like friends do. We are just sexually connected and not on the right level that we should be connected on. The problem is, i am so unbelievable attracted to him that noone can understand. imagine if u are talkin to a guy who is the hottest celebrity you know. and he flirts and wants to get wid you. u have no idea how hard it is to regret. especially when he is talented, smart, and really funny. he would be the absolute PERFECT guy if he wasn't a pervert.i just can't ever help it when around him and its hard not to think about him. oh and im a virgin which is why this decision is very important. should i lose it to him? i dont want to look back and tell my friends that i lost it to a guy i wasn't even with and he only wanted sex from me..but im sooooo attracted and its so hard to say no. he IS a guy good guy tho dont get me wrong bout that.advice please! i have till the 2nd of february!
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reader, PunkyPippi +, writes (23 January 2009):
 I'm so sorry, but your question makes me giggle. Does this guy like you? Like, is he a friend at all, or just someone you're attracted to that is flirtatious?
I wouldn't sleep with him right now. It seems like he's more interested in just having sex in his car that he is having a relationship with anyone. He's a teenage guy, so I'm sure he is a good person when he's not thinking about sex and having sex in his car.
If you do have sex with him on Feb 2nd, it will probably be an emotional thing for you, and something that you'll wind up regretting with this guy. Get to know him, but don't be "the first girl he fucked in his car"
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): You are telling us you find him incredibly sexually attractive, but you want more.
HE is telling you that he does not want more. He's making it clear that all he wants is sex with you. Worse still, its not possible to have a normal conversation with him - let alone tell him you would like to have a real relationship with him!
In your shoes, I'd advise against telling him you want a relationship, because he just might say he wants that too, simply to get you to have sex with him!
Anyway, when sex is the only connection, you will be ultimately disappointed, and you might very well wish you hadn't given your virginity up to him. So don't. Recognize that while you find him enticing, and he may be a good person, otherwise, this is going to quickly end in hurt and disappointment for you if you give him what he wants.
There's no future in it! Sorry to have to tell you so......
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