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anonymous
writes:I haven't seen my ex in a year and half.he owes me some money so we have had limited contact through text messages. I haven't seen him since and he probably wouldn't recognise me as i look different He recently phoned me and wanted to know how i was, what ive been up to etc. He then asked me if i wanted to go up to his place and i could say the night. I was so shocked. I have a boyfriend that i love and Of course i told him flat out no. Few hours later i went on facebook and there was a friend request from him too. I click on his name to see (it got the better of me!) and just a matter of weeks ago he went from being in a relationship to being single. I didn't accept the request. i think he was just wanting a booty call or something. I honestly was freaked out. What are your thoughts, why is he doing/asking this?
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reader, CWD31 +, writes (23 June 2010):
On a scale of 1 to booty call, that's a 10. Don't give the guy ANY breathing room. Well played on your part by not accepting the friend request. You're boyfriend would be happy to know how you handled it.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (23 June 2010):
 Yes, definitely a booty call. You did the right thing and didn't give in to it, though! I've lost count of how many people I've seen ask the same question, only after they've slept with the guy.
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reader, forkandknife +, writes (23 June 2010):
I had a similar experience, trust me its not pleasant. Ex- boyfriends are ex- boyfriends for a reason and all they do is stir up trouble especially with your current boyfriend. You did the right thing by saying no to his "booty call" and denying his friend request. I would wrap up the money deal as quickly as possible and end all relations. Because he asked you to spend the night he sounds a little sketchy , and possible reasons he did it are 1.) hes cocky and thinks he can get back with you 2.) he just looking for action and is trying all his possibilities. 3.) From recent communication he had become interested in you again. Best of luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2010): Yep, he was after a bootycall and you told him where to go, that's the end of it.
Get your money back as soon as you can then cut off all contact, this guy sounds like he's going to try and stir up some trouble. It's important you don't let him.
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