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writes: I have been working for a company for four months and we all took part in teambuilding and activities together.Since then I have had a crush on the boss.He's really nice to me and is always concerned if I'm ill.there isnt a huge age gap but he has a girlfriend and I don't want to say anything just in case int ruins the work atmosphere.The only thing is I'm besotted and infatuated with him.Help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008): i am 20 years old. i am in love with my married boss. we kiss only once but it felt good. i would honestly want to have sex with him. i guess it would not be for long but just to experience it. i don't want to end his relationship with his wife, she is very nice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): I have been having an affair with my (practically) married, 20 years-older-than-me boss for 1.5 years, we've been having intercourse for the past 3-4 months, prior to that it was oral/hand stimulation...I REALLY like his g/friend....it's awful but you just can't/don't want to stop. Karma's going to bite my ass big-style. I know how you feel girl. Those thinking of starting something, don't. You'll want him a lot more than he wants you, it hurts like hell.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2006): Hi
I also fell for my married boss, although we were friends for 8 years before anything happened. He was miserable with his wife and I with my partner. Eventualy he left her, and I my partner. You would think we would be on top of the world, but were not. You wont believe the upset it has caused,not only for our x-partners, but also us.I always knew it would be hard, but never realised it would be like this. There are more than a few times i thought he would give in and go back, he has given up an awfull lot for me. We both know we will never have the big house he used to have. I think if I knew how difficult it would be I would have thought very hard about it. Having said that though, everytime i look at him I know I couldnt have done it any-other way, I love him so much. I guess what I am saying is, dont do this on a whim. Only go down this avenue if you are really sure you can handle it. Good luck
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reader, Lemonpixie  +, writes (5 November 2006):
 Like the outher aunts said get it under control... if you like your job and your reputation then keep it to yourself. The girl who sleeps with the boss is automatically the workplace slut... it's just a fact of life that people will think that. Go to a pub and find yourself a nice available lad. If you find a great guy your feelings will fad for your boss!
I at one time had a crush on my boss, it natural to be attracted to someone of power and esteem especially if they are nice and sweet... but stay away it will only end in tears!
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (29 October 2006):
 You have to get those feelings under control as you are heading for career suicide. You have a couple of choices. Firstly, you can try to find another job in another company if you really feel you cannot keep this a secret and avoid the guy in the future. Secondly, you can accept he is your boss, a work colleague, not a single man and just hide your feelings for him. If you were to pursue this man then it would trigger some nasty office gossip. He may reject you, or just be up for a fling, in which case you still have to see him at work afterwards. He may find it difficult to switch off from 'the boss' role outside the office and this may affect your personal relationship with him. It may cause promotional problems for both of you since office relationships are rarely encouraged by senior management. However, I think the biggest problem is that if he did reciprocate then he would be cheating on his girlfriend or dumping her to be with you. You may think this is great but it wouldnt say much for his integrity - it means there is a good chance he would cheat on you, or leave you in the future for the next office beauty who happens to be around.
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