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writes: Dear Cupid,I am really close friends with this guy. At the end of our emails we always write "love you" and have done for about 2months but i don't know if i'm leading him on even though he writes it to me to. When we went out for lunch recently he said we are just really good mates and don't fancy each other like all my other mates say we do. But in an email he sent me the other day he said " it makes me smile just to think about our lunch the other day and when i think of you" but is he saying this because he's down or because he fancies me? I don't want to give out the wrond signals and i'm really confused about what i want and who i want. please help, any ideas would be greatThanksxxxxxxxx Reply to this Question
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (28 March 2006):
 You say that you two are really close friends so saying love you at and end of an email isnt really a big deal. i say to my close friends love you, its just away expressing your feelings about your friendship. but this doesn't mean your leading him on if you think he reading more into then speak to him find out how he really feels about you. but to me it just sounds like you two are very close friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2006): If you are dependable, respectable, fun to be around, then yes, it likely does make him smile when he thinks of you. How nice that he was open with you about those kind thoughts. And it's okay for good friends to say they 'love each other' in a platonic way. Nothing wrong with that. As long as there is mutual respect and trust, then that is what's most important. Over analyzing and trying to find some hidden meaning in everything he says to you, puts you on edge andwill cause you NOT to enjoy this friendship, anymore. Enjoy his company and his friendhip simply for what it is...a nice simple friendship. Don't try to make it into something bigger. Doing that is being unfair to him and yourself. Just relax and enjoy the friendship..go with the flow.
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