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writes:I''ve posted 2 questions on here already. but i am just confused and in dire need of advice. i am still dealing with this guy going on three years. and i think that we are in love with each other, but we both have explosive tempers, then we "make up". i feel that we a just infactuated with having sex with each other. but when we seperate over serious arguments, he always end up calling me and asking to spen time with me, guessing thats his way of apologizing. but when things begin to go smoothly, he becomes egotistical, arrogant, sociopathic, narcisistic and highstrung and acts like he is king tut and talks to me whatever way he sees fit. then when i explode back on him, i am in the wrong in his eyes. everytime i break up with him, he always end up calling me every single time. then i end right back in the same crap with him. i am getting tired of this. i just broke it with him, and i am pregnant and he might be the father. i have not heard nothing from him yet, but feeling that i will in the night time. what is wrong with this picture? am i just naive? or he just obsessive n confused Reply to this Question
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (14 August 2010):
 well this sentence isnt good for a start. and i am pregnant and he might be the father? is that perhaps why you argue have you cheated on him? if so then he will be angry if he knows about it and is possibly looking for pay back. if you cannot talk like adults and spend more time sad than happy then why are you still together.. love isnt perfect but it should make you more happy than sad! if these anger out rages happen alot and are quite nasty is that an enviroment you want your child growing up in. also if he knows hes going to be a father then that will cause him stress..either A go see a counselor b sit down have a calm talk about things or c leave him and look for a better life for yourself and your child! no one has right answer all we can do is say what we think and hope for the best outcome! i know a few people to use this site and they have sorted out their problems whether its something they needed to hear or not! so sit down and think about your options and what you would like to life rather than argue break up argue break up its not healthy life style. all the best good luck aphex xx
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reader, Mature Lady +, writes (14 August 2010):
Get out of this relationship now,lets face it, it has been going on for three years now,and he is not going to change now,but while you allow him to come crawling back to you he will continue to do so.You are pregnant now what are you going to do wait until he physically harms you or your unborn child,let him see that you are going to get on with your life without him in it,although if the child is his he has a right to know,but I cannot see him standing up being a man and giving you any support.
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