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writes:My gf and I have a mutual friend, but I have known her for a little longer than my gf.We will name her Julie. My gf is Elizabeth. They have become decet friends since I started dating Elizabeth.Before I started dating Elizabeht, I suspected that Julie had attraction for me and attempted to make some moves on a couple occassionns.Julie now has a bf but she still seems to show some interest. We both enjoy hanging out with each other but we cannot tell our significant others because we would get in trouble.Two questions:1. Do you think it is bad that we are hanging out, alone, without telling our others.2. Do you think she wants me, even though she has a bf? ie would she come over secretly without having some sort of attraction to me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Pyro_Dimples +, writes (16 March 2009):
 do you love your gf? If so you shouldn't be risking it like this.
If you guys are just hanging out and not fooling around it should be okay that you hangout but eventually if there is that interest you guys will end up cheating and then you have a mess.
Talk to her and be strait with her. What do you have to lose? You still have a gf haha. If you truly think she is interested and you like her more than your chick then its worth the risk. Hell there are always more girls out there if she doesn't feel the same!
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