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writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months and we were best friends for 4 years before dating. We've well broken the touch barrier with hugging and such and I have even made some moves myself by kissing him on the cheek multiple times. The problem is: we haven't actually kissed yet. It being both of our first relationship we're both inexperienced; so what should I do? Both of us are fairly shy people making this situation all the more complicated. Any ideas?
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reader, 98shanny98  +, writes (2 April 2011):
 Wait till the time is right and kiss him.First of all, make sure you have fresh breath. Smelly breath is a total turn off and a definite no-no.Secondly, don't kiss him in front of his or your friends. That will just make you both very embarrassed and will probably make your friends feel awkward.Thirdly, make sure he wants to kiss you! Read and decipher his body language. If he is gazing into your eyes, then that's good. It is also good if he is smiling and leaning towards you.When you go to kiss him. look at his eyes, then his lips, then back to his eyes. This is the universal 'i want to kiss you' sign. Or you can just ask him if you can kiss him. Slowly lean in, and touch your lips together. If you want to do open mouthed kissing. Then open your mouth and continuously kiss him. If you want to do tongues, open your mouth, and gently touch your tongue to hi lip. This will let him know that you want to do tongues. Do NOT push your tongue down his throat, this is a very unpleasant experience. If he wants to do tongues too, then his tongue will come out too. You can run your tongue along his lips if you want. Touch your tongues together and work them. Do NOT do 'washing machine' kissing, it is very disgusting. If you want explore his mouth with your tongue and work your tongues together.MAKE SURE YOU:Take regular breaks, else you will end up with jaw ache.Have fresh breath.Don't worry! It is your first time and there is no right way or wrong way to kiss.MAKE SURE YOU DON"T:Bump teeth. If you do just laugh it off and continue kissing.Stick your tongue down his throat, it feels horrible, like your going to be sick (blueergh). With tongues, less is more!Keep your eyes open when you kiss. This freaks people out, keep them closed.Drool all over him. (eew, slobbery)Pucker your lips too much. It would be like snogging a fish, keep them relaxed.Hope I helped. Happy kissing!From Shannon (98shanny98)
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reader, honestman  +, writes (2 April 2011):
If you really want to kiss him, take him to a place where you can be alone to kiss each other. Then, push him against the wall, and keep staring at his eyes. Make a sexy smile while doing this. Then, close your eyes, and kiss your guy up!He will be melting inside and you'll also enjoy it :)
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