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We are both very shy but I know he likes me. Should I take the initiative here?

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Question - (16 February 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 30 July 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *....Barbie....X writes:

Hello I have got a problem i really like this boy at my school, in fact i mite even love him but im not sure he feels the same way. this is what he does to make me think he mite feel the same way - he will smile at me for no reason , look at me and than turn around quickly or he will look at me and i will look at him and we just stare for a minute then he will glance away.

He always looks back at me if he is in front, he goes red when i talk to him, and he will talk to my friends but not me inless i talk to him first which is rare because i am shy i think he is shy too well he is around me . he knows i like him because the people who know have told him this has been going on for too long now and i just want this sorted out i just don't know what to do? please can yu help me ?

Thankyou for reading hope to hear from you soon

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A female reader, X....Barbie....X United Kingdom +, writes (30 July 2007):

X....Barbie....X is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I Did write him a letter but he never gave me an answer and the day i finally admitted to his face how i felt i realised that i no longer liked him in that way and i felt so good with myself after i felt like a weight had been lifted off of mee. Since than we have become friends and we get along better now than we ever did just want to thankyou who helped me .

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A female reader, X....Barbie....X United Kingdom +, writes (17 February 2007):

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Thankyou Very much Kenny and India you gave me great answers i can't send him an email because he does not have one but i think i am going to write a letter and give it to him just thankyou X...Barbie....X x

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (16 February 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntHooray!!

It sounds like this guy definitely DOES like you and that he is painfully shy and can't approach you. I think you should make the first move! He's probably been dreaming of that for awhile...

I think Kenny gave you good advice. Write him a letter or an e-mail! That way, he won't turn bright red or get super nervous. That way he can be excited all by himself and think of a clever reply. Then, when you see each other next, go ahead and talk to him and maybe he won't be as nervous!

This post made me so happy!! :o)

Good luck, Sweetness!

xxIndia

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (16 February 2007):

kenny agony auntArrr, this is so sweet. It sounds like he really likes you, but he is to shy to do anything, and so are you.

If you are to scared to talk to him face to face why don't you write him a letter, or better still if you have his Email address send him an Email telling him how you feel.

But don't get one of your mates to ask him for you, he will think this is really uncool.

Good luck x

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