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age
36-40,
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writes:Hi,I am dating a 20 year old guy and i am 25 years old. I find it odd dating him due to our age gap (especially if a woman is older) but i know that i am happy whenever i am around him. He is always there to comfort me and do things for me when i asked or even if i don't. He is one good guy and i think that he is mature enough as of his age. I feel protected when i am with him. His sweetness and the way he cares makes my heart melt. I am not sure about my feelings for him though. I am DAZED and CONFUSED. I think he feels the same way. Now here is the big problem.... He has a girlfriend back home and i do have a boyfriend back home. We knew it the first time we started dating. We were honest to each other and just happy for what we have right now. I do not want to break up with my boyfriend because i am not sure about what i am feeling for him right now and he does not want to break up with his girlfriend either because of the same reason. Should i continue this game or should i call it over before it gets complicated? Am i in love or i am just looking for someone to depend on? I am sittin' on the fence right now and don't know which way to go. HELP Please!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 December 2009):
Oh please end it with one or the other. You're keeping your boyfriend like a spare tyre. I would hope that you know you don't love him, and that you respect him enough to end it with him and let him find someone who will love him. It's cruel to keep cheating on him and it's going to leave you very confused. You don't love your boyfriend, because if you did, you wouldn't be cheating. End it with him.
As for this new guy, I suspect he's using you and won't dump his girlfriend. Dump him too, and focus on your own life. There will be a guy out there for you, so don't fear being alone. But the two men that are in your life now are not not Mr Right.
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