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writes: Ive liked this guy for a really long time and we have been sexually involved but have now gradually grown apart, although we still have the occasional kiss and one night stand! We've both seen other people in the time we've known eachother but we always end up back together. I have recently found out he has a girlfriend again and i am more distraught than usual. How can i get over this? Should i move on and give up yet?
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (10 June 2006):
 I think you have got in to the classic, nothing else much going on and the two of you get thrown together. hes quite happy to have casual sex, but has decided that your maybe not for him. Hes seeing someone else again, and i guess if you do its not as often. I think hes probably been ok with the arrangement but you have more feelings about it and are more into him then he into you. Hes quite happy to see other people so you should to. I would move on and find someone thats a constant in your life not someone that flits back and fourth when not much else happening. its up to you but hes got yet another girlfriend and its not you. If he were to break up with her then maybe tell him that you want more, and see if he does to, he may flit because he thinks your cool with it to, but one of you will get hurt and its likely to be you. So maybe a clean break is what is needed and find a new man! There are lots out there its just knowing where to look! get yourself out and about and noticed, and the right guy for you will be out there somewhere, take up new things to do, new ways of meeting people and let him carry in with his life to. No point hanging around for someone thats part time when you know you want someone thats going to be there for you in a relationship.
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reader, sibaan +, writes (10 June 2006):
 if you love him then never give up but let him go and if he comes back then its meant to be remember guys dont always know how they feel about someone until its to late...make him see how great you really are and then hopefully youll get him all to yourself...
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