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writes:So this question is probably not gonna have an accurate answer but I would like to have some possibilities. So me and this girl been talking for a little over a month and we went out for 2 weeks because she was going to leave for a trip to Europe for 3 months. We had feelings for each other and we got close but I didn't fully open up because I have a bad past with relationships. We knew we shouldn't be in a relationship because she was leaving but I still felt like I had to tell her why I felt tense at certain times. She was the one that came unto me and the one that initiated us going out. She even mentioned that she really liked me and never felt like that before. What I don't understand us that we agreed to see each other and talk on the last day she left. So the day came and I texted to confirm if we were still on to meet each other at the airport, so we were. I got to the airport at the time she said for us to meet, so I called and texted her, no answer. I waited outside for 3 hours and she never showed up, I called so many times and the phone rang so she did have signal.What I don't understand is who is so messed up to do that, even if you didn't want to see the person and just be friends, at least have the decency to let the person know. Has anyone ever had this situation closely similar to mine and later found and answer? I just want to know why? Btw this happened 2 weeks ago.
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reader, diamondshards  +, writes (18 August 2012):
I did have a supposed friend/love interest/thing do that to me once- standing me up. When I brought it up, I got nothing but BS from him about it {ridiculous stuff, like how he had not agreed to come to that place/time in the first place, when I had written proof he had}.I did not really need an answer from him about it, though, I knew exactly why he did it- he is a coward who suggests to do stuff he'll never actually do, all words and no action, and doesn't give a damn about other people or their feelings- only his. This is my case, though, yours may be entirely different. If you really want to know why, I suggest you ask her. It may be of no use whatsoever, but at least you will have tried something. That is, if this behaviour of hers is out of character for her- if you had any other indication about her being unreliable, there's no point in adding fuel, just call it quits and try to heal.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (18 August 2012):
 You can never really know people sometimes.
Sometimes they say they are your friend and can act / play up.
It was not nice of the girl to act up on you like that, and its less likely you will get answers.
Its best to realise this just shows her real character as being some who is not reliable.
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