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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:A question to all the guys out there, i need your advise:What can make a guy stay in a relationship with you? I have tried to be on both sides, my first ex i was clingy and it didn't work. The 2nd one, i wasn't so expressive of myself and was independent, still it did not work. Now, I am on my 3rd but I don't know how to handle this. I feel very soon it will end, I have this paranoia even before things go downhill that I am meant to have a failed relationship again. What will I do?Please give me advise on how to keep my man this time. I know this is a general question but I would love your insights, not everyone thinks the same thing you know. Atleast this will help me even a little before I watch myself fail again. Reply to this Question
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reader, mimisoph3  +, writes (25 July 2010):
 hello i am a girl and i'm giving u some kind of advice
dont press urself too much guys like a girl that is completely her self! the reason it didnt work the first time was because u stalked him to much wanted to know everything and wanted to get in his bussiness 24/7 and the second time the reason it didnt work was because u didnt show him u cared u were too inderpendent giving him the idea that he is indepenedent and that u dont care there for its the reason it didnt work. .i hope u learned ur lessons in the past and be urself be in his life but dont try to know everything u guys are a whole one u are ur own self and he is his own.i'm sure it'll go fine if u care about the relationship
he didnt have to be wit u but he wanted to good luck :)
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