A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:hi im gonna be 14 in a couple months and something really strange happened to me. my parents were watching this movie and the man and woman were having sex in bed. i was watching and i started getting really hot and wet like i was peeing in my pants.(although i didn't!) what happened to me? it felt kinda good Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009): Simple puberty.
Your body is beginning the process of changing itself so it will be ready soon to carry a child to term with no lasting effects.
Your hips will widen, your breasts will develop. And you will begin to have powerful urges to do sexual things with people that might not even have had an interest in before.
These feelings are mostly due to the hormones produced by your body in order to effectively alter it's appearance and its very nature.
You will start to bleed from inside your pelvis, out of your vagina... this is your newely activated sexual organs operating and producing the eggs needed for fertilisation during pregnancy.
It might sound less than appealing put so frankly like that. But the hormones will prevent you from actually caring just how gross the process actually is.
Your desires which will begin to fluctuate wildly will eventually settle. They will be no less powerful when they hit. But they won;t hit so often and so randomly because your body will be finished it's major changes and the hormones let out only to help reproduction.
Flynn 24
A
reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2009): I wish I had this website when I was your age. Your just growing up your hormones and sex drive are basically on crack. You'll be fine just don't let yourself act on any of those feelings until you are really ready and an adult in a long term serious relationship or better yet married. Your question was probably the most innocent question I've read on this site. Hope you feel better.
...............................
A
female
reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (14 February 2009):
it's normal. i remember being your age and finding the most silly things a turn on. like really soft sex scenes in movies and on tv.
you are starting puberty and there are lots of hormones racing around your body. it;s the start of you becoming a young lady. you may notice that you will start to get white stains in your pants and this is from where your body is starting to produce it's self lubrication, which is the stuff that helps you when you have sex when you are much older. that's what the wet stuff is. it comes when you are slightly turned on by something. when you get older it only appears when you are with someone or masturbating. but as you are very young it's just because your hormones are all going crazy.
talk to your mum or an older sister or cousin, they will help you understand what is happening to your body. we have all been there. nothing to be embarrassed about.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2009): It's not so much what happened to you as 'what's happening'. You're starting the process of turning into a young woman.
I'm not sure whether you were peeping around the door or sat with your parents, but either way the best person to ask would be your mother. She's been through the same thing and she's best placed to answer any questions you have like this one. You may be pleasantly surprised to find how knowledgeable she is!
...............................
|
