Wasting my time 2

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I’m very confused about this guy’s behaviour and need advice. I started talking to a guy, he used to text once in a few days but very detailed msgs about some mutual topics , never opened up about himself much emotionally. I didn’t mind cause we were just talking, we met and travelled together. He did not sleep with me saying he doesn’t want to rush into anything, he treated me nice and he is a good person, I can tell. But even after he left , he barely called and he doesn’t texts much. Even when I was with him, I saw he isn’t a phone person so I was patient but then I brought it up saying how can things go ahead without communicating? It’s not like he isn’t interested, he does show interest, he is straightforward too , he said he is sorry his bad communication is creating problems and he did make effort but when he again didn’t open up much , I confronted him. It’s been 6 months and I can’t say we have head a heart to heart . He said taking it slow thing again, saying he doesn’t wanna mess up and understand the situation before rushing. I agree we have met just once and it’s recent but am I overthinking for trying to analyse his situation? It’s still feels like he is hurting or still not over someone by the way he talks or the way he kept getting lost at some songs , I don’t know. The way he says “he just doesn’t wanna make some mistake as time reaches you think “. Am I wasting my time here ? We exchange texts once or twice a day and no calls . No deep topics , ever . Can’t claim I know him that well.

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