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writes: so i was talking to my step brother and his friends and they were saying what they liked in a girl. some of the things they mentioned were pretty eyes (big with nice makeup), pouty lips and always use chapstick because it makes them soft, don't over do the hair (bump its are a big no, u can have straight sexy hair) and they said that when a girls hair is wet like right when she gets out of the shower and its all in her face?? (weird i think), small slim shoulders, obviously nice boobs (not necessarily huge), real small waist, big hips and a nice butt, dimples in the small of the back, thighs that dont touch together (just the slightest bit at the top), small ankles and wrists, small feet, belly piercings and sometimes tongue (depending on the girl), nice flat tunny, good tan, bikini tan lines (apparently a big turn on for some guys), really white teeth, no fake nails (i think thats weird too...), painted toe nails, glasses can be sexy, tattoos, "those punk girls that look hardcore like they can kick your ass with the two lip piercings" (their words not mine), small hands, and probably some other things that i forgot to mention. a majority of that stuff about 90% of it(not to sound conceited at allllll), sounds like me... his friends flirt with me a lottt too, was that conversation a compliment in disguise?! i'd really like ur opinions on this, this is directed mostly to guys! thanks in advance! h.nicc3
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank youu everyonee! oh & let me jus sayy that these guys ARE TEENAGE BOYYYSSS. they all thinkk aboutt lookss haha but that was what the convo was aboutt lol i should have been more specific! thankk uu again, and i havee a bf so i wont be making a move on any of them, jus wanted to know! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2009): It sounds to me more like you happen to have the characteristics in a girl they like than that they are interested in you specifically. In other words, wait for one of them to say he likes girls in red shirts, black shoes, and silver jewelry, when that's exactly what you're wearing, before jumping to any conclusions.
TasteofIndia is exactly right in that they're likely to just see your physical traits. If you're okay with that, then being a little more flirtatious, to make sure they get the idea you're interested, couldn't hurt. But no jumping one of them and then saying, "But you said you liked it when girls don't have Bumpits in their hair!"
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (14 September 2009):
 I agree with tasteofIndia 100%
It seems like they are very shallow when it comes to girls. And very immature. Love is not about looks - yes certain traits attracts certain people, but really, beauty is truly in the eyes if the beholder.
I would not put more thought into it really, unless you are interested in your brothers friend.
Personally I would always go for brains over brawn. Someone with a rocking sense of humor, intelligence, witty, fast thinking, adventurous and so forth then just date a pretty face. ( Been there done that.. yawn)
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (14 September 2009):
 Sounds like some superficial guys, to be honest. My GOD, that's a list!! But, I guess teenage guys are like that, so okay. It does sound like a compliment in disguise if you were sitting there and they pretty much described YOU. But, be wary, since these guys seem to be pretty focused on what you look like and not on who you are. Did they mention any personality traits? So be careful in that regard, or they'll just see you as nice boobs, a real small waist and small hands.
I'm not a guy, but sounds like that was a compliment in cognito. Good luck!
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