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writes:I cant seem to get over the idea i meant nothing!Was this a summer fling or did she matter?A guy I had a bit of a past Im starting to think is a player. After he ignored me over summer, he started off liking one girl at work who he texted constantly, wrote love letters to, hung around her and went to parties with her. Then, halfway through, he changed his mind and started actually dating another girl who he also sent some presents, texted all the time,went to parties with but after summer ended, he planned to spend time at Christmas with her and fly to see her on his spring break. To me that seems like a big deal, no? They dated for 1 month before she moved back to school and he cheated on her a week after she left. So she found out a month later and broke it off not wanting to do long distance and finding out he made out/slept with another girl at the time and had online relationships while they were dating.This guy did some of the same things with me; texting me, giving me presents, hanging out, even planning for the future, but we never got into an actual relationship like with her. Does that mean that he liked her more and that I didnt matter?Please help, I feel depressed that I meant nothing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008): If he really wanted to be with you he would have done something to make it happen, knowing that you had feelings for him. But yeah he sounds like he's messing you around so I would keep a distance and find someone who actually wants a relationship with you =]
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