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*ylan6264
writes:I haven't spoken to my ex since the break-up four months ago...it end abruptly and she is now with someone new...straight away. Every says it's a rebound.the fact the latter part of ur relationship was long distance was the reason for the break upWe have not spoken at all or disscussed anything that's happened since the breakup telephone call, which she asked me to make the decisions and I ended the call. She asks about me loads etc and recently I have moved in with friends, who live 5 mins away from her. Last night she turned up out of the blue and sat 5ft away from me...this is the first time we had seen each proper, apart from 5 secs in a club a month ago. It was awkward, but it brought back feeling I didn't want...anyway I send her this message 24 hours after..."Hiya, you alrightI know it's been a while, but I've had a lot of time to think and i think things between us left on a bad note. "Was this a bad idea???
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (5 May 2011):
 Your welcome. Well keep in touch with her and see how things go as time goes on. You never know what will happen as time passes by.
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reader, Dylan6264 +, writes (5 May 2011):
Dylan6264 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI appricate the replies mate. Unfortunately I'm still in love with the girl lol
She talks about me all the time to a female mutual friend but has failed to mention her new bf :s
She apologised for the way everything has happened etc
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reader, The Realist +, writes (5 May 2011):
I see, that makes more sense. In the end it is your choice and by talking to her first you really leave it open to whatever you choose to do now.
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reader, Dylan6264 +, writes (5 May 2011):
Dylan6264 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI said I didn't think I could because of what had happened and how it happened, and there were things that needed clearing up etcAnd it's been two hours with no reply lol
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reader, Dylan6264 +, writes (5 May 2011):
Dylan6264 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI said I didn't think I could because of what had happened and how it happened, and there were things that needed clearing up etcAnd it's been two hours with no reply lol
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reader, The Realist +, writes (5 May 2011):
I don't think that it was a bad idea at all. Even if you two don't get back together which I am assuming that is what you want it is showing that she is will to be friends. Now you're at a point where you can choose whether you want to be friends with her or not.
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reader, Dylan6264 +, writes (4 May 2011):
Dylan6264 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust said she felt the awkwardness and didnt know what do about stuff
Missed talking to me and really wishes we could be friends or atleast be in the same room as each other
I said "I don't think I can do that coz of what's gone on and the way it happened" lol
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reader, The Realist +, writes (4 May 2011):
If you think that things can get better with you two back together then I'm in no place to tell you that it was a bad idea. It was a good idea to show that you care, it shows that you have grown up and can be civil with her.
How did she respond to this?
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