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writes:I had a big argument with my boyfriend just before Christmas and we ended up not seeing each other for two weeks. Whenever I'm seeing him or I'm around him a lot I make sure that I shave my pubic hair off because he doesn't like it.But because we argued I didn't really pay that much attention to grooming myself down there. It didn't grow back all that bad and I don't think I looked a mess or anything.But when my boyfriend decided to just show up out of the blue when he was trying to get me to talk to him again we ended up having good evening and then had sex. He decided to stay at mine for a few days but wouldn't go near me after the first time we had sex.I got a bit upset because I tried to but he pushed me off him or avoided having any contact with me. He's now told me he was really put off by my pubic hair on Monday.Ok I get it may put him off but I've shaved since then and he seems so disgusted by it that it doesn't matter that it's gone now he's finding me repulsive to touch.Do you think this is a valid reason for not wanting to sleep with me or do you think that maybe when we didn't see each other he has been seeing somebody else?He kept looking at his phone the whole time he was with me which he rarely did before. I'm kind of upset he found me so repulsive. Do you think it's an excuse because he's with somebody else or do men find hair that bad?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2016): from a man's point of view. Men are never repulsed by a woman's pubic hair.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (8 January 2016):
 Can't really add to any of the advice that has already been given. all I can say is that he is a horrible, horrible person and you are much better off without him
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reader, Slippers +, writes (7 January 2016):
Have to agree totally with the two aunts can't add anymore other than .. he's a waste of space sweetie .. honeypie. . she nails it ..
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2016): He's either sleeping with someone else and now feels like complete scum, and so to be even more of a twat he's blaming you.Or, he is a complete twat and actual is avoiding contact with you over YOUR body. Either way - why the fuck are you with such a loser? It's your body, so actually how you groom yourself would be entirely your decision. Also, if he was a decent human being he would value the relationship and wouldn't make you feel like shit for not shaving. You deserve someone better, don't stay with a crap boyfriend because it's better than being alone. That's not true! It's better to be alone than have someone who would ignore you and possibly have cheated on you.You know you can do better and deserve better. If I were you, I wouldn't see the point in saving this relationship
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 January 2016):
 Yeah he sounds like he is making excuses, my guess is he is seeing someone else.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (7 January 2016):
 what she said... points down.
sex was not planned and it happened and he didn't want to because how he's cheated on someone else with you...
so he blames YOU.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (7 January 2016):
 My guess is you are NOT his only GF and he wasn't "repulsed" by your pubic hairs but by his own actions, yet it was easier to make YOU and your pubic hairs the villain.
Seriously? A guy is so disgusted by hair that he rather be on his phone then enjoy the company of his so called GF? I call bullshit. She probably kicked him out and he had nowhere else to go but yours.
Neither you NOT your pubic hairs are repulsive. He is a twat.
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