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Was my free lunch just a friendly gesture? Or was there more?

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Question - (13 March 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 March 2006)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

I went to the local pizza place for lunch yesterday. Just to get a take away salad.

As I got there it was closed. So I was turned away and was walking back, and get my lunch elsewhere when there was a knock on the window. I turned and it was a male acquaintance of mine.

He invited me in. The rest of the staff were in there (they couldn't open for safety reasons) but he allowed me to get myself a salad, taking no money from me.

Later going home that night he was catching the same train he told me that I was the only one he let in that day. I just felt myself blushing. Of course I thanked him for the free lunch and he said that was alright. He also asked whether the waitress took any money from me. I said she didn't.

That was alright then he said

Now what do you make of this? A friendly gesture?

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A female reader, Hopeful +, writes (14 March 2006):

Hopeful agony auntI think it was a friendly gesture but if you are interested in him, it may be a good springboard to asking him out.

I suggest you go and visit him at the restaurant again, perhaps with a friend or two and say hi and see where it goes.

If you are really keen, you may want to visit him and suggest you shout him a meal sometime in return and see what he says. If he says yes, well what a great opportunity to get to know him better.

It may just be a nice thing he did or alternatively it could be his way of getting to know you better and do something nice for you.

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A female reader, Aunt Sally +, writes (13 March 2006):

Aunt Sally agony auntJust a friendly gesture I think but maybe he fancies you but is too shy to ask you out. Why not ask him a bit about himself next time you go there for lunch and see what happens. Don't feel like you have to say yes if he asks you out - the choice is yours.

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