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writes: I went to the local pizza place for lunch yesterday. Just to get a take away salad. As I got there it was closed. So I was turned away and was walking back, and get my lunch elsewhere when there was a knock on the window. I turned and it was a male acquaintance of mine. He invited me in. The rest of the staff were in there (they couldn't open for safety reasons) but he allowed me to get myself a salad, taking no money from me. Later going home that night he was catching the same train he told me that I was the only one he let in that day. I just felt myself blushing. Of course I thanked him for the free lunch and he said that was alright. He also asked whether the waitress took any money from me. I said she didn't. That was alright then he said Now what do you make of this? A friendly gesture?
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (14 March 2006):
I think it was a friendly gesture but if you are interested in him, it may be a good springboard to asking him out.
I suggest you go and visit him at the restaurant again, perhaps with a friend or two and say hi and see where it goes.
If you are really keen, you may want to visit him and suggest you shout him a meal sometime in return and see what he says. If he says yes, well what a great opportunity to get to know him better.
It may just be a nice thing he did or alternatively it could be his way of getting to know you better and do something nice for you.
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reader, Aunt Sally +, writes (13 March 2006):
Just a friendly gesture I think but maybe he fancies you but is too shy to ask you out. Why not ask him a bit about himself next time you go there for lunch and see what happens. Don't feel like you have to say yes if he asks you out - the choice is yours.
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