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He says he wants to be with me, but what about the girl he's with?

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Question - (13 March 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 March 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I started seeing my "lover" 8 months ago. I was married and he's in a relationship. My marraige ended 4 months ago. My lover emigrated 6 weeks into our relationship, but we have kept contact since. I know he is the one for me, he knows me inside out and we never ever lie to one another. He tells me he is going to leave his partner and come home to me this year. I'm in the process of trying to find us a home in a new town (which he suggested), but i'm scared that as i'm trying to take another girls man something is going to go wrong. What if he changes his mind? What if he decides he can't tell her? What if she is so upset that he decides its best to stay? I don't want to uprooot to move away from my family if he's gonna change his mind. He tells me he has never felt this kind of love before and wants to spend the rest of his life with me! But, but, but? What should i do? Do i make a break now or hold on and have faith? Please help!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2006):

First of all, honey don't settle your self short waiting on someone elses man! You deserve better than that.Evidently,hes a cheater,and a deceitful person for what hes doing to his girlfriend.Be smart! and remember what goes around comes rihgt back AROUND.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2006):

where do u get off stealing sumone elses man???...u reap what u sow - deal with it!!

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