Was my ex using me for sex, or did he care about me? what does he feels for me now?

A female age 30-35, *ild orchid writes:

its been 2 months my boyfriend dumped me. he came back a month ago. we hung out as friends and i could say we did a little more than just friends. but i remember that night he asked me will i ever date him again. i responded i dont know. he asked why but deep inside i knew he didnt love me anymore.so i told him i just dont want to get hurt over and over again. and he said he wont hurt me. question came through my mind. if we are having sex and we are friends. then why does he wants to date me again. but i never did date him again. another night came and he was watching me sleep and i woke up and he asked me so would you ever date me again. i never responded back and i went back to sleep. i knew inside he cant love me not after all the things we've been through when we were dating it showed me he didnt love me anymore.. 2 days ago he text me saying if i wanted to sleep over tonight. i never text him back. 5 minutes passed he text me with a question mark. so i said how about another day. he said whatever u want. then i never replyed back. then he text me again. saying what happen anyways. so i decided to tell him i just dont feel comfterable this way. i want to be more than just a friend but it seems like you like it this way. so he wrote to i just dont want drama. im having alot of stress right now. it will take a while. please understand,. so then i wrote to him did you stop loving me please i need to know. and he took 20 minutes to reply. and finally he wrote " its not like i can control it but yes it faded away. i dint mean for it to happen but i still wanted to be with you and make up for the lost feelings because you are a awesome person." theres no certain time it happens over time and i never intended for it to happen and i was still happy with you dont ever think i used you i care for you, and just remember you wont find anyone else like me believe what i say or not, i always had hope.

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