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Was it stupid of me to help the girl I like to meet the boy she fancies?

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Question - (25 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *-New-Start writes:

there's a girl in my school and i've been in love with her for 3 years but i've never had the courage to ask her out, and now she has forgotten how i feel about and recently she has been asking for my advice on a guy and i have been givin it and now i've set her and this guy up on a date and feel really stupid...

was it stupid of me to do this?

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A female reader, :):):) United Kingdom +, writes (26 August 2008):

No, it just shows what a nice guy you are, which I'm sure she'll remember in the future!

Theres also a possibility she was asking YUR advice because she likes YOU and wanted to see how you'd react.

See how it goes with this guy and if she becomes available again, give her some time and then ask her out, maybe to the cinema etc.

xxx

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A female reader, auntie em United Kingdom +, writes (25 August 2008):

Of course it wasn't stupid to help your friend, im sure she appreciates your help and will recognise what an un selfish act this was. However, it is understandable that you feel left out now that they are going on a date. I'm sure she will need a shoulder to cry on one day if all doesn't work out..prehaps you can be that shoulder and who knows maybe you'll pluck up the courage to let her know how you really feel.

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