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writes: After breaking up with my man I have come to realise how long I've been living out of fear for. He did a lot of bad things and I always felt it was all his fault. Now I realise the bottom line of the universes' message they were trying to send me. It all makes sense, finally. It's easier to blame someone else while they appear to be making all the obvious mistakes - (cheating) but all the while missing how i had contributed. We broke up about a year ago. He is with someone else now - the day after giving up on me ( he was trying to prove he was trustworthy and really did love me since he left). I would like to truly believe in "meant to be" theory when it comes to the guy you meet - i've felt it soooo strongly for so long. Do I leave it in the hands of fate that we might get back together one day? Or do I let him know how I feel and what I've realised now? Am I being silly thinking there is such a thing as "meant to be"? Or should I just let it go even though I feel so strongly about it? Very confused!! please help!!
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (14 April 2006):
 hey Soul Sista
he lied, cheated and treated you with no respect what-so-ever. I havent even met him and i don't like him! Move on, if he does have the nreve to come crawling back to you, turn him away! he had his chance and blew it. Don't Dwell on past mermories. Just imagine his face when he comes crawling back to you and sees you with a boyfriend! Be strong and move on from the past. Find somebody new. Because like it or not, everybody needs somebody.
Be Happy and Talk To me. Tell me how it goes!
Phoebe xxx
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reader, XalieX +, writes (2 April 2006):
Not meaning to sound harsh....but if it was 'ment to be' he would have been in touch with you. Its obvious he has moved on because he's with someone else, maybe you should do the same try and put him in the past and look to the future. If you try and move on from him, others will appear more attractive because you will not be comparing them to you'r ex all the time. This is the advice i have been giving myself for the past few months as i was in the same situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2006): Stop dreaming girl. Stop hanging on to nothing.He treated you bad and cheated on you and still you want to cling onto that? You have to start taking charge of your life and stop daydreaming.Start afresh, shake him out of your life, he certainly not thinking about you right now (he has someone else). And most of all let the past stay as the past. Pick yourself of the floor and move FORWARD.Good luck.
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