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writes:I have been seeing a guy for a few months now. Initially, we would go out on dates etc. He was always busy, but did make time for me and our dates Recently, we began to just hang out around his apartment more...instead of going out... which was fine. Well recently we began to have sex. Which was great but, I have noticed that our time together is meeting up after our other plans just for sex and staying over. We don't go out on dates any more and he always has plans. When I confronted him (via email) about how our relationship has turned sexual and that it made me uncomfortable, he freaked out. He suggested we continue to hang out (without sex), but also got really upset that I expressed my feelings via email. I am really second guessing myself. Was I wrong? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2009): You do everything just fine. It's very common for guys at the end turn relationship into sex. But you don't have to do that. You were right to let him know how you feel, it's o.k. that he got upset, may be it will make him thinking.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2009): You should have had the decency to talk to him in person, and not send an e-mail. E-mail is very impersonal. Other than that you are right to express your concern about where the relationship is headed and that you feel uncomfortable with how it's become.
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