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I just can't trust him, should I even bother to keep trying?

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Question - (26 September 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 September 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

So here's my situation, i've been dating my boyfriend for a while now and I really love him a lot. But, I can't trust him, and I want to. He has done so many sneaky things behind my back and that makes me think he doesn't care what I think or how I feel. I've given him so many chances to be trusted but he ruins it all the time and can't understand that I don't trust him because he does it to himself. I don't want to end our relationship but it feels like i'm getting nowhere. I have talks with him all the time about how I feel but I always end up getting hurt and feeling like crap. Should I just end this now and deal with how bad it's guna hurt or should I keep trying? Thanks!

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A female reader, QuirkLady United States +, writes (27 September 2009):

QuirkLady agony auntLife's too short to be with someone you can't trust, especially with so many wonderful men out there.

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