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Was I too desperate?

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Question - (29 October 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 October 2008)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

I met a really good man that had been broken up from his fiance of 3 years. I met him 2 weeks after their break-up. He and I had so much fun together. We are both 45 and his fiance is 37. We had more in common than she and he did. We did have sex. But the day after we had sex he and his fiance got back together. He doesn't call me or even talk to me. I see them together and it is like I never even existed. I really felt like we had a connection and he did tell me he did not feel they would get back together. What does this mean? Does he even think about me?

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (30 October 2008):

DoubleM agony auntHe is obviously not entirely honest and I think that "daniellexxxx" probably has it right. You were used, and you should probably just chalk it up as experience and move on.

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A female reader, daniellexxxx United Kingdom +, writes (29 October 2008):

daniellexxxx agony auntHe did not feel they would get back together means. He wanted her back but she wasnt sure sounds to me like he loves her and thats why they are back together, U need to move on hun i know this will be hard for you as really he just used you as he wasnt sure as to what he wanted. Just ignore him if he trys talking to you again as he is not worth it at all.

Good luck hun x

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