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writes:dear agony aunts,a few months ago i got with a guy i thought i really liked. a few of his bad habits annoyed me a lot. i felt smothered so in about a week i broke it off. the trouble had been i didnt know him well enough. i started dating another guy a few days later and he got very jealous he started dating random girls to try and make me want him back. it didnt work but whilst we were apart i talked to him so much that i began to like his habits and most things about him. i broke it off with the guy i had been with to find out the guy i now liked had a serious realtionship. then him and his gf broke up. he said he was fine so one drunken night about 2 weeks later i told him about my feelings. once id sobered i explained that it wasnt just the fact that id been drunk and that i did really like him. he said he liked me alot to but didnt want to go out with anyone at the moment.i dont no what to do im broken hearted.was he just trying to make me feel better by saying he liked me?if he wasnt is there anyway i can make him recover from his ex faster?please help!!!!!!
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reader, aunty t +, writes (8 March 2007):
 I would say he is telling the truth and doesnt want to go into another relationship. He may very well like you but isnt into getting serious. I know that you really like him so i would just hang in there for a while and see how things pan out. If you are meant to be together you will but dont stop having fun with other guys and you may find someone else takes your heart before he does.
Have fun
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reader, nicola79  +, writes (8 March 2007):
 I do agree with Dr John,you are still so very young and you do need time to get to know each other better.
He may just not want to hurt you because if he did go straight out with you it may just be a rebound thing.
Do as Dr John says and stay friends and just have a laugh with each other and maybe in time he will think that you do have a future together. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (8 March 2007):
 At your age things can be so difficult. It is tough to know just which direction to go in.
I would say to just stay as close to him as you can for the moment and let things go the way they will. Eventually you will know his real intent and in the mean time it gives the both of you more time to get to know one another even better. It may surprise you as to what the outcome will be. Doc.
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