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Was he doing this to try and get my attention, does he like me?

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Question - (27 March 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 March 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I was walking down the hall chatting to my friend and I saw him walking in my direction from the corner of my eye. I usually say hi to him, but I didn't think I was going to as I was busy chatting to my friend, so I thought he would just walk by.

But as he got nearer I heard him say 'nice hat', not too loudly, I almost didn't hear it, but he was clearly messing around/joking, and he smiled. I yelled "I'm sorry?!" really sarcastically, and smiled over my shoulder and I saw him look back and grin/chuckle at me, before walking on.

I couldn't help smiling to myself afterwards.

But I have heard guys do different things to get a girl they like's attention, some are as simple as adjusting their tie in front of her and hoping she notices the flash of movement and looks over, and others act crazy and boisterous. This was sort of in between the two extremes.

He usually teases me quite a lot, he is more an acquaintance than friend, but I adore his company. He is quite flirty I guess.

But in that instant, in the hallway, do you think he was trying to get my attention because he likes me? (To put it bluntly haha)

Did he want me to look over at him because he is interested in me?

(And, I know this sounds SO INCREDIBLY up myself, I apologise, please don't call me out on it, I can't help it, but he knows my friend also as an acquaintance like he does me, and he doesn't mess with her like this, and in that moment he didn't bother acknowledging she was next to me, he just interacted with me alone.)

Okay I'll stop typing now and hope for something helpful

:)

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A female reader, tjazzy Nigeria +, writes (27 March 2010):

He's a flirt. Don't read any meaning into what he says. And trust me, all guys are like that with 70% looking for an easy lay. They know flirting makes girls weak at the knees and I mean c'mon! You're tripping already. Just don't read any meaning into flirting.You'll save yourself a lot of pain. Trust me.

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A female reader, Moony127 United Kingdom +, writes (27 March 2010):

Moony127 agony auntlol! This conversation you had with him sounds quite funny :P Yes, I think he was trying to get your attention, and yes, it sounds like he does like you :)

If I were you, I would talk to somebody in the corridor more often to see the sarcastic remarks he does then :D

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