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writes: I want to be 'on' with my on/off boyfriend again, but I screwed around with one of his mates and i'm too embarrassed to see him again. My ex's mate and I have always got on really well, and shortly after I broke up with my ex this guy started hitting on me, which I enjoyed because I'd just come out of a long term relationship and it had been a while since a guy had shown any interest. I spent the day with him and we ended up kissing, but I told him I didn't want a relationship because I had too much going on in my head (which was true, I was still hung up about my ex). He was texting me constantly for a week or two after that, saying things like I love you, and I just completely ignored him because I didn't know how to reject him as I've never done it before. Eventually he got the message, but I feel bad, and if I get back with my ex then I'd have to face him again. How do I handle this?
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reader, angelique +, writes (4 January 2007):
well you have to ask yourself do you want your bf back because u love him or because you feel sorry for him, cause of what you did? there's no use in being with someone out of pity, and maybe if you truely did love him you would never have messed around in the first place. maybe your boyfriend doesn't fill the gap u have in ur life and u trying to fill it in other ways. i think u should take a step back and get to know yourself and what you want first before going back into a relationship, maybe you discover you not actually ready for a relationship and want time ti be single, just decide.
but whatever you decide to do, do it 100%, and dont look back.
good luck
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