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Want to be with her, but not ruin a friendship in the process!

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Question - (3 February 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 3 February 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i really really liked this girl at my college. i have liked her from the first day i saw her in september but i have really really liked her since october. i think im in love with her because i think about her all the time, i can't concentrate on work sometimes and everytime i see her or speak to her i get butterflies.

i also see her face everywhere as i was at a football game the other night and the away fans shaped a face in the way they were all sat, which looked like her to me and when she talks to another guy i get really really jelous and i don't want to because thers only 5 guys in our class and i'm friends with all of them.

she had a bf but they broke up before christmas. we talk quite a bit on msn n fb and a bit in college because we sit on the same table although not sat next to each other.

a few weeks ago i found out my best friend who is also in the same class as me and her, really likes her too. he says he thinks its more than a crush and also he says he thinks about her all the time as well.

i think i love her and i want to be with her but the thing is that i don't want my friendship to be ruined as one day i say to myself that he can have her and ill get over her somehow but when i see her i just want her myself and take it back.

she doesn't know that me or my firend like her. my friend doesn't know i like her but he knows that i'm just about in love with someone but i told him he doesn't know her.

what do i do? i want to be with her but i don't want my friendship ruined over this.

thanks for your help

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A male reader, Mr.Joe United States +, writes (3 February 2011):

Mr.Joe agony auntYou should tell her how you feel and just out it all in the open. She will appreciate your honesty and more than likely feel that its very good that you can be so honest with her. If she is a very good friend, she should still keep your friendship together if she doesn't go for a date.

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