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writes:For the last year or two I attended badminton training during summer break. In my first year there, I met a girl who seemed to connect pretty well with me. Then life happened, and I wasn't able to see her until around September of this year. Our training is every Saturday for an hour and a half. Before the training I normally try and talk to her, but her brother is always there with her. This is a problem for me in two ways. Firstly, now I cannot casually ask her out because I will need to ask her if we can be alone first, which is not really casual. Secondly, I can't talk to her after training because normally her parents come by and it is too late by then. So my question to you is this: what should I do to make the brother go away so that I could casually ask the girl out? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): Good luck with that man.
I have another idea though I got romantic comedies. You blast the shuttlecock off her face then go over and while you're consoling her ask her out. It works in all the movies :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the answers. Cerberus, my friend, asking her out in front of other people is not an option because then she is forced to say yes, whereas I don't want her to feel pressured by me to go out me. I would rather give her my number, tell her I would like to her before next Saturday again. Thanks for the suggestion though. LavenderGirl, you are a tad too close to perfect :P. I want to thank you for your suggestion, but my plan is to knock the shuttlecock close to the net, motion her to come over and then tell her I would like to see her again, and give her my number. Then she won't feel pressured and we can get it on if she wants!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2010): Ask her out in front of her brother, what's the big deal?
Look he's going to be the first person she tells about it plus asking her in front of her brother if she'd like to go to the cinema or hang out sometime is the most casual thing you can do. Plus it takes balls to ask out a girl in front of people and it can make it harder for her to refuse. Seriously just go casually ask her if she'd be interested in hanging out sometime or going to the movies.
Start going over and talking to her and her brother. Be friendly to both, no big deal if you want to be casual about it then stop over thinking things. Or making plans, you like her, ask her out.
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