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Waiting in limbo for love

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Question - (15 October 2014) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 October 2014)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i met a guy on a dating site and we agreed to stay friends as he didnt feel ready from what i found out its all true , he said he likes me but just not ready hes been trying to lose weight as he is large but that doesnt bother me and he knows this , so i think hes doing this until he feels confident and ready i know one of his female friends like him but hes never gone through with anything with her he joined the dating site knowing his friend liked him but didnt do anything about it , he knows how much i like him thing is im not prepared to wait forever for him or just be kept as a friend that he flirts with a lot (i dont know if he flirts like this with other female friends too) im willing to give him up until xmas but then not bother with him at all am i being naive waiting i feel in limbo waiting and im not on the right side of 35 hes said he wants 4 kids and he knows id like kids too its how he words things too sometimes he says i could find someone fab and who knows whats round the corner but then hes saying he likes me and we have a lot in common i dont know what to do , ask him out right or be silly n say ive got someone else interested which i kind of do

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2014):

He said he likes you, so that is a great start. Respect his time. he wants to get himself together and that is a great idea. He was also honest, and that is a plus. Date other people and keep yourself open to him.

U don't have to tell him you are dating

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A female reader, yaya_16 Dominican Republic +, writes (16 October 2014):

yaya_16 agony auntHe is not ready, he doesn't have confidence with himself! Come on, menknow what they want; if not they will be back to you. Also he knows you like him... he doesn't really want to be with you.

He is inviting you to look around.. I recommend you to do it, don't close your oportunities.

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