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writes:why am i so nervous to meet my gf's mother!!need answers asap its tonight!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (15 August 2008):
 Shave shortly before you meet her. Trim and clean your fingernails. Wear clean, non-wrinkled clothes. If it's appropriate, try not to wear old or torn jeans. Polish your shoes and wear a good pair. If it's casual and you'll be wearing flipflops and shorts, make sure your toenails are tidy too. Go easy on the cologne or aftershave. If you have any piercings, I'd leave them out for the time being.
Stand up straight, don't slouch. Imagine there is a string attached to the top of your head pulling you up. Firm handshake (don't squeeze her hand too tightly) or hug if she initiates it.
Look her in the eye, try to smile. Don't touch your girlfriend too much, other than guiding her through a door or helping her into a car. Make sure you let the ladies go before you through doors. Walk on the street side if you're in town. Focus more on her mother than your girlfriend. Don't interupt either of them when they are speaking.
Be prepared to give the short version of your life. Speak respectfully of your parents and your family. Refer to them often, if it's natural in the conversation. If you have realistic life goals and dreams, be prepared to share those with her.
Be positive about your life and everything you do. Don't tell too many jokes or give over-the-top compliments. Have a small list of questions you could ask her mother. Where was she brought up? Is she working? What does or did she do?
Eye contact, upright body posture, relaxed shoulders, don't forget to breathe.
There, now I've got you totally panicked, don't I?
Just relax, be respectful, be positive. You'll be fine.
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reader, shandygirl +, writes (15 August 2008):
 Be polished in Hygene and appearance.
Have Manners....Be very polite... "Pleased to meet you" "Yes Mam" "No Mam"
Also show a lot of respect and regard for her daughter in front of her.
Good luck!
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