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Very interested in casual sex...what to do?

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Question - (20 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 April 2009)
A male India age , anonymous writes:

Iam in love with a woman who seems to be interested in. Since Iam much interested in casual sex, not sure what to do ? every time I touched she didnot say anything nor objected but still Iam afraid to express my feelings Iam in confusion is there anyway out to know whethter she is interested in this without causing any harm to our personal relationship, hope some one will come up with answer

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A female reader, TELLULAH United Kingdom +, writes (20 April 2009):

TELLULAH agony auntHi,

Do you mean that you cant have a relationship with this lady? How can you love her but just want casual sex?.

If its just sex you want then tell her thats all you want, but dont tell her you love her. Lady's see sex as meaning something quite different, than men seem to.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009):

I think WE are confused! You stated you are "in love" with a woman....but interested in casual sex with her? That doesn't make sense. If you are in love with someone, you don't just want casual sex, you want a loving, honest, giving, respectful relationship with that person. Casual sex you have with someone for fun and with no strings attached, not with someone you love! If you wish to date her...ask her out. She can only say no...and if she does..you are not meant for each other.

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A female reader, littletigle11 United Kingdom +, writes (20 April 2009):

littletigle11 agony auntJust talk to her. Honesty is the best policy.

It could go good, it could go bad, but at the end of the day, you'll be more respected for being honest to yourself and her.

You never know, she might like it too.

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