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I "need" a second lover!

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Question - (20 April 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 20 April 2009)
A male Netherlands age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Hi! I've got a family and I like sex very much. I don't know how to do. I would really like a second love. My wife is really fat and things are so difficuclt that I can't enjoy having sex with her any more. I don't want to dump her because we've got two daughters. I would like to be with a girl between 25 and 35 years ald. Don't ask me for to go for dating websites. I hate them, I just need a second lover, but very very discreet. Would be very grateful for any help or suggestions.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009):

pssstttt- fat women also like to have sex. and often.

while you are looking for your second lover your wife will be indulging in her second competent man. and she will be loving it.

and yes, fat women do orgasm. i wonder if you were able to bring her to an orgasm yet, if not, how the heck do you expect to satisfy someone else, when you cannot get it right with one woman.

please a woman is just too much of damn hard work.

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A female reader, pebble United Kingdom +, writes (20 April 2009):

pebble agony auntSo you're asking us to help you find someone to cheat on your wife with? Really?

Or are you asking us if one of us is willing to be this "second lover" that you apparently 'need' to cheat on your wife with? lol ;) Again, really?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (20 April 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntI was able to get my dog back by stapling posters on the neighborhood telephone poles. Do you have telephone poles in the Netherlands?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009):

If you dont love your wife then leave her!! Do you have any idea how she will feel to find out that you would rather have sex with someone who is younger and thinner than her. It will destroy her self esteem.

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A female reader, ilovebowsandcherries United Kingdom +, writes (20 April 2009):

ilovebowsandcherries agony auntshouldn't matter what you think of your wife you shouldn't say things like she is fat!

if you don't love her anymore

then leave her you clearly don't have any feelings there for her

dspite having family do you really want to have your daughters seeing you and your wife in an unhappy environment what happens if they have or are going to have any children do you want your grandchildren in an unhappy environment where you don't like your wife.

you should love the person you are with no matter what!

you clearly don't love her.

so do her a favour and leave her.

not everyone is perfect!!

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