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writes:Hello Ladies, another Valentines Day has passed. I am sure there are stories abound to share about romantic exchanges or disapointments. Whatever the scenario, never shoulder the burden of why things did not work out as planned. Remember it is just another day, one of 365 in the year. The key to salvaging this day is to look to ourselves and what makes us truly happy. Something no other individual can do for us. We create the change we want to see. Change our thoughts and we change the outcome. The relationship issues we experience are part of our normal life ups and downs. Let's access the core of our spirit and move to a higher level of self exploration. Many of us still draw to the "bad boy" to lift us up. We ignore the meeker man in hopes that the feeling we get will sustain us and keep us engaged and in love. We must first empower ourselves to believe in our ability to be happy in our singledom before we can truly connect with a partner. Your partner need not be burdened upon to create your happiness. Upon reading and researching numerous articles on what makes an individual commit, I have come to a conclusion, you cannot generalize. We each have our own subconscious ideals of the perfect mate. Our past experiences will also have a big impact on our choices. Therefore, it becomes ever so important to begin to expect the best in relationships, so that we receive just that. Let the conversation begin, so we can draw from our own instinct and the experiences of our elders to live a whole vibrant and loving life. Remember it takes two to partner. No one person shoulders the blame in a relationship. Divaschat.Peace and Love
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2014): this is a very good article!
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