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writes:hey i work in a restaurant full time and theres this girls shes 17 like me and we've knowing each other for like 6 months now but I recently got moved from the kitchen to waiter so i work with her now and we have realy got to know each other her freind was drunk at the xmas party and told me that everyone fancys her suspected i did too i told she'd had too much to drink and kept my mouth shut but i knew then i must have feelings for her we talk on bebo alot its like a social website if u aint heard of it but the thing is it says shes in a relationship but she never talks about other guys around me and i cant guess of anyone else that is as close to her as me so valentines day is coming up and i dont know what to get her? if so what should i get her? this is this the first girl i've realy had feelings for in 2 years i dont want to lose her freindship because i got the wrong signal plz help
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (6 February 2009):
 It is very sweet of you to want to get her a valentines gift, but as you are not actually in a relationship with her and she IS in a relationship with another guy you really should not go overboard. A card and a small token gift, like a fist sized teddy bear or a book you think she might enjoy would be nice. If you get her anything that is too much it could cause trouble or put her off. Just a small something, under $10, would touch her and make her think you are sweet. Then if she ever does break up with her current beau, she will think nice thoughts of you and be open to a date perhaps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009): You need to find out for definite if she's single or not before you go making any moves on her, a. because me might feel very guilty and you will feel very down and b. because you might have her boyfriend to answer to! Just ask her, say you noticed her relationship status but she'd never spoken about any guys and you were curious.
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