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writes:So my boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and finally had anal sex. I've had anal sex before but they've always taken place in the shower (with my ex of five years) so it had always been clean and super enjoyable. Well, it kind of happened unexpectedly with my recent boyfriend but I was all for it but I guess I wasn't prepared. Anyways, after, he had me suck his Dick and it all happened so fast and next thing I realize I just swallowed a little bit of my poo remains on his Dick :( we were able to finish, but I smelled the lingering scent of poop and the next morning my throat felt really funky. Needless to say I was super embarrassed about the little mess and smell but he was really understanding when I apologized. He doesn't know about me swallowing some poop though. I'm just worried I might get sick or something? My throat just feels super funky. Any thoughts? Or does anyone know if this is super bad?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (3 December 2011):
 That too, you shouldn't apologize for anything. He was the one who wanted to stick his penis up your ass, a bit of smell and poop is what is to be expected and if he doesn't understand that then he's got no business sticking it up there in the first place. You shouldn't have apologized for something that is only natural.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (3 December 2011):
 http://www.webmd.com/sex/anal-sex-health-concerns
Condom, wash, change to new condom for oral or vaginal sex. No exceptions, no "in the heat of the moment" bad decisions.
He should not be taking the penis out of the anus and putting into your mouth.
If things are happening "so fast" that means he doesn't really care that much for your health or well-being and I would seriously consider if he's a good guy to be dating. To me, that is extremely inconsiderate, selfish and simply stupid for him to have done.
And why should YOU feel you have to apologize? If you have anal sex, there is poop involved. What's the big surprise there?
Practice this, saying "NO." NO, STOP, no oral sex until AFTER you have washed your penis. NO, STOP, I don't want to do this. NO, STOP, this is not okay.
Have a discussion with him about the procedure and do not have anal sex until you have done your homework.
Take care of yourself, it doesn't sound like he is. Be well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a ton, I guess I can only hope now that I don't get one!!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (2 December 2011):
 Ohhh you know when u get a urinary tract infection. It hurts down there, bit of a burning, uncomfortable sensation. The only relief you get is when you sit on the toilet to urinate. In which you might as well spend the rest of the day on the pot.
If that happens, drink tons of water and 100 percent cranberry juice to flush it out. There's also the AZO pills but I find they take forever to work and they also turn your urine bright yellow-orange. Now if it lasts more than a day, then I suggest making an appointment with your doctor. Ask him to prescribe you Macrobid(unsure about the spelling). That pill will clear it up in a matter of hours.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (2 December 2011):
Yes, wear a condom during anal, for both his and your safety. He can get an infection if poop enters his urine tract, just like you can get an infection if you go from anal to vaginal sex (bacteria gets to your urine tract and gives you a UTI, and he can just as likely get a UTI himself).
Wear a condom for anal sex to avoid any mess, then after anal sex just take the condom off and you don't risk stumbling upon anything messy if you want to continue playing.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (2 December 2011):
 Agree with Tennisstar they are not a regular thing... only for when really needed....
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (2 December 2011):
I would ask your doctor about enemas. They're only necessary when you're constipated. If you use them too much then your body relies on enemas to be able to have a bowel movement.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (2 December 2011):
we favor the Fleet Disposable Enemas for when needed.
of course I always adhere to the Condom during Anal sex and NOTHING after but bathing more for HIS protection... he can get a nasty infection w/o a condom...
and NEVER do anal to vaginal without a break for a SERIOUS washing.... NO MATTER WHAT....
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI've never had a urinary tract infection before, how do I know if I get one? I'm now worried just because we went from anal to oral then vaginal :/
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (2 December 2011):
Shit happens, literally.
I echo the rest of the aunts...So this doesn't happen next time, I suggest adding more fiber to your diet (more solid stools). He could also wear a condom during anal, then take it off when it comes to oral. You could also take a bulb syringe and squirt warm water in the rectum to clean off an excess feces. This way you can avoid "poop dick" next time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI hope ill be alright! I'm a very clean and good hygienic person, that night just caught me off guard and I wasn't expecting to so next time I will be more prepared! Thanks for all the responses. Any advice as to how I can better prepare myself for next time? I've heard a few things about enema bags, is that helpful?
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reader, Candid Cally +, writes (2 December 2011):
Brush and floss your teeth and use a mouthwash (3% hydrogen peroxide mixed with an equal amount of water works really well.)
While it seems gross, you should not become sick. If there is a next time, make sure he washes it off quick with soap and water before you give him oral.
Finally, anal to vaginal sex CAN and WILL make you sick. One of my college roommates allowed her boyfriend to perform anal, then vaginal sex in a shower. Less than 24 hours later she was in the hospital with a really bad urinary tract infection.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (2 December 2011):
While gross... worse things have happened.
Babies eat their poo all the time... I've cleaned up a messy crib and room after a "nap" on more than one occasion... both my kids are happy and grown and healthy now.
as others have said e.coli is the biggest problem but the truth is that your stomach acid will destroy a lot of things... in fact given the option your stomach acid will eat your other organs (trust me I know this from personal experience with a perforated ulcer)
I am betting the sore throat is a bit in your head... or just a coincidence...
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reader, person12345 +, writes (2 December 2011):
 It's unlikely you would get sick, but unfortunately it is possible. Ingesting human fecal matter can cause e.coli infections. BUT it's really, really unlikely. There's fecal matter and e.coli all over the place and we eat small amounts of it all the time and it's almost never a problem. You're almost definitely safe. Most infections will show up within a few days. You're probably fine though. It's really unlikely. If we were susceptible to e.coli infections everyone who ate rare hamburgers would be sick.
Though I have to comment, golden showers are infinitely more hygienic than fecal matter, urine is sterile when it leaves your body.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOh thank goodness. I'm actually a really clean and good hygienic person. That night just really caught me off guard. I had gone straight to the bathroom to brush and gargle afterwards. The only thing that worried me was the fact that my throat felt funky, mucus-y, and thick the morning after but eventually went away. Haven't felt sick to my stomach or anything so hopefully all is okay!!
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reader, chigirl +, writes (2 December 2011):
God I feel so sorry for you. Really, that was a horrible experience, but you and your boyfriend were obviously getting it on like a house on fire, or else you'd never have gone to do this...! So that's the good part, you and him have amazing hot sex together, so much you even forget about general hygiene. But this was a good reminder!
Yes you can get sick, but rarely anything extremely harmful. If you get sick it will most likely be a stomach problem, because you ate a load of bacteria. Depending on your own personal hygiene though, prior to this, you might not have anything to worry about. If you always wash your hands before you eat or put your fingers in your mouth and keep a good hygiene you probably don't have anything bad in your poop to make you sick. The common thing is for those who are already sick to pass it on to others by bad hand hygiene (not washing hands after being to the toilet), but if you originally didn't have anything then you shouldn't be getting anything by this either.
Remember, some people are into this sort of thing, ever heard of two girls and one cup? Heard of golden showers? People do that without getting sick. You probably will not get sick.
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