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writes: Hey. Im 17 and my boyfriends 18, we've been dating over a year now and ever since the begining our relationshi has had problems. Alot of them have involved his ex and im so sick of it. He lies to me, and treats me horriably. i want to break up with him but im scared of the pain that i know will come along with it. should i stay unhappy with him? or unhappy without?
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reader, bodylotion +, writes (1 April 2006):
 You need to get out of this relationship.No matter what you will feel without him you will feel double if you stay.
You don't deserve be treated horribly.Your still young and
there are plenty more fish in the sea.Once you feel over the relationship go and find yourself someone decent who will treat you with respect and won't go on about his ex.
Don't mop around for weeks on end though if you decide to break up.Go out and have some fun.Good luk.
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reader, Aunt Audrey  +, writes (1 April 2006):
 Can breaking up with this guy be worst than having to be with someone you are obviously not happy with?
Only you can decide what or who is right for you and you sure don't sound like a happy bunny to me!
Finish with him and find someone who makes you happy, not depressed.
Good kuck.x
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reader, Angelicc +, writes (1 April 2006):
 You should leave him because if you unhappy with then whats the point of being in the relationship with him. at least if you leave him you'll can move and maybe be feel happy again.
if you dont leave him the way he acting towards you will crush your spirt and lower you self esteem.
it's gonna be hard to leave him but its time you thro of yourself as he obiviously isnt. in the long run you'll see your best without him.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (1 April 2006):
 Ditch him and work through the pain, all relationships when they end cause a degree of pain but this is part of having relationships and life.
dont waste another preciouse year on someone who is just a waste of space, go find yourself a nice man.
sounds to me like being with him is causing much more pain than being without him will cause.
Be strong and true to yourself, ditch him today!!
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