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writes: heyy heres the thing. theres this guy *dean. i only met dean at the start of the school year and our personalities clicked straight away. so now were the best of mates and i love him to pieces. but recently some of our other mates have been sayin we spend alot of time together and that we would make such a cute couple. dean and i have discussed this and were totaly happy just bein good mates. but the other night i was talkin to him on msn n he said he thought i was really nice n that he would go out with me if he had the chance. obviously i would go out with him aswell and i told him this but he thought i was only saying that becuase he did which is totaly untrue. so i told him that i was bein serious and weve started spendin even more time hangin out and talking etc. any suggestions to what i should do? i really like him and he likes me but im scared that if anything did happen it might damage our friendship =( please help =)
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reader, xtrasexii +, writes (4 January 2011):
id go for it. you like him he likes you back if you break up you can still be friend. my ex is the god father to my kid and my husband doesnt mind.
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reader, Alexamanoo +, writes (13 April 2006):
If you never try, you will never find out. The future is not ours to tell. As you go through life, leave no stone unturned. Let me tell you, nothing worth having in life comes easy and you have to take the chance if you really want to be with him. It is your choice though and your life. Just don't waste it worrying about what will happen if you don't do this or if you do that. Love is about risks and is the greatest feeling in the world.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2006): Plain and simple: go for it
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reader, Angelicc +, writes (1 April 2006):
i agree with smeedle entering into a relationship with this guy may ruin your friendship but some risks are worth that. maybe being a couple is the right next step for you two.
bu before you take it you really need to think about whether the risk is worth. if it is go for it, i wish you good lucck and hope it all goes well
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reader, smeedle +, writes (1 April 2006):
Yes it may damage the friendship or on the other hand it could turn into a much deeper friendship.
Life is all about taking chances and going with your heart, do what you feel inside you is right and if it all goes wrong just be open with him and say that you preferred it as mates and could you go back to that.
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